We’ve had quite a busy week with Little bear. Both Papi bear and I have been working as hard as we can to get him on track developmentally. We read, we play pretend, we roughhouse with both our boys – whatever it takes to get Little bear engaged.
And it’s working! It’s working incredibly well.
This week he started saying a bunch of new words regularly: No, papi, “Gracias, Little Bear (except his real name),” uva, meow, the letters i, t, d, and z(eta). He’s using old words like bubble and ball more often. He repeats new words more often, even if he hasn’t incorporated them into his vocabulary yet. We see him on the cusp of learning and we’re thrilled by it.
He’s also growing socially. He’s starting to seek approval every once in a while. Not consistently yet, but sometimes when he’s watching TV, he’ll look up to see if you’re watching, too. He especially does this when it’s something he’s really enjoying. He’s done it a few times when playing with puzzles as well. He’s searching for approval and for us, that’s huge.
He’s starting to fight with his brother. Previously he just cried when Big bear bothered him. Now he defends himself by pinching, biting, or pushing back. He’s not doing it unprovoked – he’s learned that his brother feels pain, too, and it makes him stop hurting him.
Finally, Little Bear has found a new love. Kung Fu Panda. We rented the third installment last night and Little Bear was mesmerized. He’s always been a movie fan, but this was different. This was like his entire spirit lifted. He laughed, smiled, growled, and actively watched the entire film from the beginning until the end of the credits, and then went up to the TV and touched it when it ended because he missed it.
Ironically, it wasn’t the panda he liked. I mean the panda was cool and he laughed when he did funny things, but the villain… that was who he adored. He literally squealed with joy every time he came on screen. The action scenes had him literally at the edge of the couch in suspense. He enjoyed the third one so much that we finally watched the first one, which has been sitting on my Amazon Prime account for at least six months – there was a giveaway when Kung Fu Panda 3 came out and I downloaded it “just in case.”
I’m glad I downloaded it.
He loved it. The leopard? Oh god. He sat there growling at him every time he fought the panda. Growling and laughing. He was in heaven.
I think we have a lot of Kung Fu Panda in our future.